What are alienating behaviors?


Which alienation strategies have been identified?

  1. Badmouthing

  2. Limiting Contact

  3. Interfering with Communication

  4. Interfering with Symbolic Communication

  5. Threat of Withdrawal of Love

  6. Telling the Child that the Targeted Parent is Dangerous

  7. Forcing the Child to Choose Between the Parents

  8. Telling that the Targeted Parent Does Not Love the Child

  9. Confiding in the Child

  10. Forcing the Child to Reject the Targeted Parent (TP)

  11. Asking the Child to Spy on the TP

  12. Asking the Child to Keep Secrets from the TP

  13. Referring to the TP by First Name

  14. Referring to a Stepparent as “Mom” or “Dad”

  15. Withholding Important Information from the TP

  16. Changing the Child’s Name

  17. Undermining the Authority of the TP

2006. Baker, A. J. L., Darnall, D. (2006), Behaviors and Strategies Employed in Parental Alienation: A Survey of Parental Experiences. Journal of Divorce & Remarriage 45, 97–124.

Steven Miller organized the 17 strategies or alienating behaviors into six groups:

  • Badmouthing

  • Limiting contact

  • Erasing of memories

  • Undermining trust

  • Undermining authority

  • Undermining love

 
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